Today was my not-bachlorette-party. I really resisted one, and my amazing friends and family threw one despite that, and it was an absolute joy. I started the morning at the farmers’ market with some of my best friends before getting on an America-themed trolley with champagne, straws with a picture of my cat on them, and almost all of my favorite people. We drove through cornfields, past cows and waving people, to the beautiful winery we went to last year for my sister’s graduation. When we got back to my parents’ house, there was a surprise murder mystery dinner?!! And then we went to the dreamiest dive bar for karaoke, rumchata shots, and more absurdity. How could a girl even ask for more.